“I know lolita isn’t sexual and they hate people thinking it is, but I do get turned on by some lolita’s, especially steampunk, sweet and classic. I’m bisexual, and often dress in classic or steampunk lolita because I feel so great in it, and one of my biggest fantasies is a lovely lolita girlfriend to kiss and cuddle…and then some…”
I agree with this, but at the same time, being turned on by a certain fashion doesn’t make it inherently sexual. I also like people who wear sweater vests and cardigans with button downs. That doesn’t make sweater vests and cardigans sexual either.